Wife stunned to learn her husband is a woman after 10 months of marital sex

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An Indonesian woman is reeling after learning her husband of 10 months is actually female — despite the fact they frequently “had sex.”

The 22-year-old wife — identified only as NA — has now pressed charges against her estranged spouse over the deceit.

“I’m still scared. I’m shaking when I go out,” the jilted bride is quoted as saying in a report published in the local outlet Tribun News.

According to the website, NA first met her spouse — who went by the name Ahnaf Arrafif — on the dating app Tantan last year.

Arrafif purportedly claimed to be a doctor who was educated in New York, and the two soon hit it off via message.

The pair met in person in May 2021 after Arrafif traveled to NA’s hometown of Jambi. Arrafif proposed a short time later and they tied the knot in July.

A woman named Erayani Arrafif (pictured) has reportedly been charged with fraud in Indonesia after she posed as a man and tricked another woman into marrying her. The couple were married for 10 months before the truth of Arrafif's sex was revealed.Erayani Arrafif (pictured) has reportedly been charged with fraud in Indonesia after posing as a man and tricking a woman, identified as NA, into getting married. The couple were married for 10 months before the truth of Arrafif’s sex was revealed.


NA admitted to being intimate with her spouse during their marriage, saying she believed they had engaged in penetrative intercourse.

However, she admitted that she was asked “not to look directly at Arrafif’s genitals” and that her “eyes were covered with a cloth” whenever things turned steamy.

NA also alleged that Arrafif would only get naked with the lights off, so that sex was had “in a state of blackout,” Suara.com reports.

Arrafif claimed to be a man named Ahnaf Arrafif. They matched with NA on a dating app before they met up in May 2021. They wed two months later.


Arrafif reportedly forced NA to have sex with the lights off. The bride was also ordered to be blindfolded whenever the couple became intimate.


While NA’s mother was reportedly charmed by Arrafif prior to the marriage, she soon became suspicious when it appeared he did not actually have a job.

Arrafif moved in with NA and her mother, and promptly began asking for money. In the ensuing months, NA’s meddling mama became more and more convinced that her “son-in-law” was a fraudster. She also started to become skeptical that Arrafif was a man, and she tried to obtain identification documents.

This past April, she finally confronted Arrafif and ordered him to strip naked. At that point., Arrafif is sai…


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