For years, I cleaned up after my 11-year-old son, often out of impatience or exhaustion. My back injury changed everything, forcing both of us to reassess our approach to chores. I realized that neglecting to enforce his chores was a disservice to him. It was only when I could no longer do these tasks myself that he stepped up, learning basic responsibilities such as making his bed and cleaning dishes. This year, I am determined to teach him essential life skills—like properly loading the dishwasher and doing laundry—so he can grow into an independent adult. Unbeknownst to him, these lessons are fueled by love and the desire for him to take care of his own future household. This experience underscores the incredible notion that teaching children independence is not just about completing chores; it's about preparing them for adulthood and instilling a sense of responsibility.